Gender Neutral Baby Baskets

You are buying a baby gift and you do not know whether the baby is a boy or a girl, or you would simply rather not pick pink or blue. That is a fine position to be in, because plenty of baskets are built to suit any new arrival. This page walks through the neutral options on offer and helps you decide which one fits your budget and the family you are sending it to.

Welcome Home baskets

These are the most straightforward choice. The retailer describes them as a way to welcome baby home, and the wording even says "him or her", so nothing in them assumes a sex. They come in three sizes of the same idea: a starter, a medium and a large. The large one is described as loaded with baby must haves, which points to a fuller basket for a close friend or relative. The starter suits a colleague, a neighbour or anyone you want to remember without a big gesture.

Animal themes

If you want something with a bit more personality, an animal theme is an easy way to avoid the pink and blue question. Elephants and foxes are both on offer here. The elephant basket is described as a way to trumpet baby's arrival, and the fox basket as cute and clever. These suit a parent who likes a nursery with a theme, or a giver who wants the basket to feel chosen rather than generic. Both descriptions use "baby" and not "he" or "she".

Space theme

The space basket is the most playful of the group. It is built around a baby astronaut ready to explore the galaxy, with space-themed duds (that is, outfits). It suits parents with a sense of humour, or families who love science fiction and stars. One thing to note: the retailer's wording says "his", so it leans a little masculine in tone even though space is a theme anyone can enjoy. If the parents might notice that, you may prefer one of the other styles.

How to choose

A few things matter more than the rest.

• How close you are. A larger basket suits family and close friends. A smaller one is friendly and appropriate for everyone else.
• Theme or no theme. The Welcome Home baskets keep things plain. Elephants, foxes and space add a clear look. Pick a theme only if you think the parents will enjoy it.
• The wording. Read the description. Most say "baby" or "him or her", while the space basket says "his". If you want full neutrality, choose accordingly.
• Your budget. The range is wide, from a modest starter to a large basket. Check the current price on the product page before you decide.

Questions people ask

Is a neutral basket a safe choice if I know nothing about the parents?

Yes. A Welcome Home basket is the most general option, since it is simply about welcoming baby home.

Which size should I pick?

Go by your relationship with the family. The large basket is described as loaded with baby must haves, so it suits people close to the parents. The starter is a kind, simple gesture.

Are the animal baskets only for nurseries with an animal theme?

No. They are cheerful gifts on their own. They just work especially well if the parents like a themed room.

Should I add a note?

A short, warm message is always welcome. Keep it simple and use the baby's name if you know it.